If Your Parents Over 50 Years Old

Farah Waheda Wahid
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Source Extracted from Google
Sharing from the bits and pieces from FB by Imam Tahir Anwar...

If your parents are over 50, you have to read this:
  • Your parents are getting old.
  • They can't do the things they were able to do before.
  • If we are able to do something for them, we are lucky.
2 things:
  1. Begin supporting your parents financially, even if they don't need any help. Purchase their groceries, buy their appliances. Get used to making room for their needs from your earnings while they don't need us. So that when (and if) they need financial support from us, it's less difficult. And in some cases, our parents may be totally dependent on us. If they are, and you have the honor to serve them, remember, it's an honor, not a burden.
  2. Parents can't do half the things they used to be able to do. If there's heavy lifting, moving large things, etc; do it for them. They should be able to call on us to assist, and we need to make time for them, so they are not burdened with such things.
Both of these suggestions have been inspired by 2 very sad incidences that Imam Tahir Anwar personally came accross in the community within the last few days. In both cases, the parents didn't mention a thing. But Imam Tahir Anwar felt sorry for them, knowing they have children who could/should be doing such things for them... 

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  1. mak ayah sy over 50...tp alhamdulillah masih sihat walafiat...masih nmpk muda hehe.

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  2. speechless...harap Allah jadikan kita anak yg taat... belum tentu lama pun... tears..

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  3. inilah yang sebaiknya anak lakukan..balas balik jasa mereka :)

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  4. mak abah saya over than 50 years..ohh..

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  5. tugas seorg anak buat ibu bapanya

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  6. syg mereka sgt2

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  7. sharing yang terbaik,in shaa Allah,selagi saya mampu membantu kedua ibu bapa saya,saya akan lakukan sehabis baik :D

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  8. okay.. nak balik rumah skrg.. huhu. ;(

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  9. mak kathy dah 66..

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  10. arwah papa meninggal 8 hari sebelum umur dia 50 tahun..ibu dah 60 :')

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  11. Mak akak dah 59 tahun
    Abah dah masuk 69 tahun
    Kasih saying anak-anak lah penguat semangat ibubapa :)

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  12. T_T sebaknya baca. Huwaaaa~~ T_T even dah besar panjang ni pun still depend dekat dorang nak beli barang. sobbs..sobss. insyaAllah, I'll try to serve them well.

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  13. Sayang mak jugak ayah ...
    Sayang mertua dua2 sekali ..
    Sayang sgt2 sampaikan tak tahu byk mana ..
    Moga mereka dberi kesihatan yg baik ...
    Semuanya 50 tahun ke atas sudahhhh tapi alhamdulillah sekarang baik2 jer ..

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  14. my parents over 50, tapi they are happier, wealthier, more capable than me... huhuhu...

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  15. mak ayh shida dah over 50 years..kdg2 rsau tgk ksihatan dorg xbpe stabil dgn mcm2 hal huhuu.. sygg mereka :')

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  16. kalau dah ada duit sendiri, nak balas balik apa yg dh mereka lakukan utk sya :)

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  17. emak lya dah over 50..alhamdulillah masih sihat & kuat

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  18. Alhamdulillah my mum sihat walafiat..Semoga kita jadi anak yang taat dan tau menghargai kedua ibu bapa kita..

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  19. ma kita pun dah lebih 50an...
    tua dah..
    :(

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  20. sekarang ni fasa untuk kita bahagiakan mereka...sama2 la kita berbakti sebelum kita atau mereka dijemputNya...

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  21. good reminder farah, nanti bole email kak babypose@ymail.com :)

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  22. mak abah dah lebih 60...alhamdulillah masih dikurniakan kesihatan yang baik...

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  23. selagi mereka ada dengan kita kena kita jalankan tanggungjawab sama macam mereka besarkan kita....itu yang akak buat sekarang

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  24. Hanya Allah yang Tahu hatiku tatkala ini... Huhu...

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  25. berharap masih ada masa untuk ku balas setiap jasa mereka ya Allah..

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  26. tanggungjawab kita untuk menjaga orang tua kita...

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