Angka 30... Hu Hu Hu...

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Erkss...as of today... ada lagi 3 bulan, 3 minggu dan 5 hari untuk saye dikategorikan sebagai golongan 3 series.... goodbye 2 series...the zone gonna end soon...ekekekeke... oh tidakkkk!!!! mcm x percaya jer... hu hu hu... kalau boley memang la x mo...tapi itu fitrahkan sebagai manusia yang diciptakan oleh Allah SWT...siapalah kita nak menghalangnya... 

Basically wut turning 30 years old may mean to you? Kebanyakan orang, bilamaner di usia 20(s) consider that by the time nak menginjak ke usia 3 series ni, they have hit their 'turning old' milestone. Dah tuo dah rupanya aku nih...ekekekeke... Secara ironinya, by the time they are twenty five these same people have different outlook or perspective outlook on the words "old"...

Secara turun-temurunnya, semua orang akan set-kan goals, deadlines for achievements and accomplishment yang kita harapkan kita dapat capai dalam hidup, first by the time we are thirty, and then as that age looms near, at least by the time they are forty. Thirty is that magic year the decade before forty when the 'decline' begins. Turning 30 years is a memorable time of anyone's life.

Some people, particularly we women..ekekeke...view the day they turn 30 with dread. They see everything slipping away, the proverbial 'through their fingers' so to speak. Like one women turning 30 years old relayed: I have truly accomplished all the things I wanted to by now but I feel...well, I feel as if I am losing something important; YOUTH! (uhuksss... cam ada rasa sikit-sikit cenggini jer...sikit la tapi tak banyak)

Still others look at turning 30 years old as the next exciting phase of their life, viewing it as the best years of their lives! Ermm... kalau men life begins at 40... women life begins at 30 kowt? muahahahaha.... Many see themselves as old enough to (finally...huh) know how to enjoy themselves but young enough to (still boleh la) have a good time. Others look back on all the dumb stuffies they did and look forward (bersyukur kerana masih bernafas di muka bumi Allah) to the wisdom they have acquired as they are entering their 30's. Maybe an ache or two more, but they... dot dot dot... 

Untuk yang perempuan, it's a time to stop being a kid relating to other kids (he he he...x bley nak bersifat kebudak-budakan lagi kay? oh no...what a lost... hu hu hu). The milestones of 18, 21 and 25 are behind and suddenly you are seeing things differently, like on a different level. You look at a guy and don't think, "Oh, how do I look?"...BUTTTT.... instead you look and say, "Oh, my. To be ten years younger!" Your soul-searching is taking on a different meaning when turning 30 years old also. You look in the mirror and don't see everything you want to change. You see things you actually like. It's glorious time of not trying to 'escape' anymore. You've finally started making some solid plans!!

Untuk yang lelaki pulak, kebiasaannya, it is a time for identifying their goals if they have not already been set, deciding what is needed for him (and family, if there is one) and where the landing destination will be by the time birthday number 40 arrives. It is time to start a fund meant for emergencies only and pay off credit cards or at least pay them down. Investing should be looked into, maybe through your job as you approach turning 30 years old. It is time to think of the future. If you have not already, establish your credit. As far as a man's psychological development goes he is as close to being an adult as he ever will be and yet, still use some of the old stand-bys and coping strategies he did when he was in his youth. Some great realizations as we are turning 30 years old should be: Money is not about health, happiness, fame or peace of mind-life is. It's not about to be flirtatious or to cut loose, have fun, get over a bad day, or to say things we couldn't have when we were younger. It is realizing we do not have to 'be friends' with people we don't like or who are unkind, or who annoy others just because they can. It's hanging out with people we just plain like hanging out with.

Whether we choose to celebrate or ignore the day, it is just a 24 hour period and when it is past business will go on as usual. :) 

P/S: Cik Puan Farah Waheda, tolonglah terima kenyataan you are turning 30 this year....ekekekeke....